Here’s something to try when you’re kind of on the border between easily making eye contact and approaching. Unfortunately, the step by step process of getting more and more comfortable talking to cute girls isn’t exactly linear. It may be easy for most guys to hold eye contact, and then move to holding eye contact […]
How To Build A Metaphor
Metaphors are incredibly powerful persuasive tools. If you’re telling somebody else what to do, or even suggesting a course of action, there’s usually going to be resistance. But as soon as you fire up a metaphor, all conscious resistance goes out the window. So, what is a metaphor? It can be a story, it can […]
Make Seduction Normal
Having a strong internal frame is crucial when achieving success, regardless of what you do. Obviously, this goes double for meeting gorgeous women, because there’s so much at stake. One of the biggest roadblocks guys have is a feeling that they are doing something “not normal.” Anytime we do anything that’s unfamiliar, it’s going to […]
Embrace Objections
Whenever you’re selling something or aiming to convince somebody of your way of thinking, it’s common to be afraid of objections. Many times, hearing an objection feels the same as getting rejected. They might as well look you in the eye and say ,”that’s the stupidest idea you’ve ever had!” Which feels like them saying, […]
Increase Confidence With Neutral Compliments
Sometimes breaking the ice with a girl is the toughest part. Largely, because your brain is swirling with all kinds of conflicting messages, maybe she’ll be awesome in bed, or maybe she’ll throw a drink in your face. Naturally, the more experience you have with something, the easier it gets. To be sure, if you […]
How To Hijack Your Own Confirmation Bias
Our brains are programmed to see only what we want to see. This manifests itself a lot of different ways. If you think you’re having a bad day, for example, you’ll only see things that verify it. If you think you’re on a roll, even stepping on a banana peel will be proof that you’re […]
Inner Game Affirmations To Destroy Approach Anxiety
When it comes to game, there’s two kinds. Inner and outer game. Most guys focus on outer game, but in reality, if you’ve got strong enough inner game, outer game will take care of itself. I’m sure you know this on some level. Just imagine if you were supremely confident, never got nervous, and eagerly […]
More Flexible More Better
One of the presuppositions of NLP is that the more flexibility you have in any given situation, the better off you are. Like if you’re building a birdhouse, you’d be better off with more tools than less tools. If you’re boxing, you’re better off with more defensive and offensive skills than less skills. If you’re […]
Never Seek Approval From Anybody
Long time ago I used to work at Disneyland. I worked in the “guest research” department. Basically we collected data from park attendees, to support marketing. Mostly demographics. We walked around with these iPad looking things and walked up to random strangers and asked them a bunch of questions. In a given day, we’d each […]
Be Decisive – Be Bold – Be Silent
This is an ancient saying in Magick (with a “ck”). Basically it breaks down like this. Be Decisive Choose what you want. Don’t be wishy washy. Don’t be vague. Be specific with your goals. Be Bold Take action. Don’t wait around for an engraved invitation from the universe. Take the bull by the horns. Be […]
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