I had this telemarketing job once. I was in a tight spot, and really needed some money. However, despite my financial desperation, I was only able to last for about a week. Not because it was confrontational, or difficult or high pressure. It was because it was incredibly, absolutely, and utterly boring. There was this […]
The Un-Taught Guru Secret
Most “gurus” don’t want you to know this, but I’ll tell you anyway. There’s a belief in the community (and the general population for that matter) that “outer game” is just as important, if not more so, than “inner game.” In fact, many gurus teach that if you only learn “outer game,” then everything will […]
The Best Invention of All
I used to teach English (as a foreign language) a long while ago, and one of the exercises I used in class was a list of inventions. Then the students had to put them in order. There’s plenty of lists of inventions, the most famous, the biggest income generating, the most “out of the box.” […]
How To Un-Introvert Yourself
There’s lots of ways to classify people. One of my favorites is from “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly.” Near the end, when they’d finally found the gold. Clint’s character (the famous “man with no name”) said: “There’s two types of people in this world. Those with loaded guns, and those who dig. You […]
The Most Crucial Element of Seduction
There is one crucial skill that is rarely taught in most seduction circles. But this one simple skill can save you literally years of heartache, and half of your future fortune. What skills are these? Sorting and qualifying skills. Now, when it comes to qualifying, it’s often taught as a means to increase attraction. Based […]
Become A Treasure Hunter
I remember when I was a kid, I was digging around in the backyard. Imagine my surprise when I found a turtle. I didn’t even know we had turtles. But I guess my parents had bought a couple, or received a couple as a gift (I don’t remember the exact story, I was pretty young), […]
The Mirror: Your Best Friend
Seemed I touched off a nerve recently. I mentioned something that most would like to remain unmentioned. See, one of the problems with human nature is we are all black belt Jedi ninjas when it comes to self-deception. One of the hardest things for people to do is to take responsibility for their actions. If […]
Become A Public Speaking Ninja
ew years ago, I took a course in public speaking, namely, the Dale Carnegie course. It was a twelve week course based on several of his books. Back in the day, he realized that learning public speaking skills could bleed over into virtually every area of life. Business, social, relationships, you name it. Why? Because […]
How To Create Love At First Sight
Here’s a trick that when done right, will have some pretty magical effects. One of the things that holds a lot of us back from getting the girls and relationships we want is fear. Duh. Well, maybe not so duh. A lot of guys convince themselves that they’re not really afraid, they just don’t know […]
Fresh, HOT, Popcorn!
One of the funnest jobs I ever had was at a movie theater back when I was in high school. (like a bazillion years ago lol) The best part was interacting with all the customers. I got a chance to sell tickets, sell popcorn, and stand by the door and take tickets. Being able have […]