When most salespeople start a conversation with a client, either face to face or through text, they start out with the intention of convincing the person overtly to buy the product. This is done generally by listing benefits, features, and creating positive emotions associated with the product, and amping to the max negative emotions associated […]
This Girl Said…
Wouldn’t it be nice to walk up to somebody, and tell them exactly what you wanted them to do, and have them do it right away? Maybe if you’re a parent, and the thing you’re telling your kid to do is something they want to do anyway.. Other times, it’s not so easy. Like if […]
Increase Charisma With This Powerful Trick
Here’s a quick tip, reverse engineered from top politicians and seducers that you can use to quickly improve your charisma in the eyes of your listeners. This works in person or on video, but not in text. Here’s what you do: Whenever you say something that you’re pretty sure people will agree is a “bad […]
Covertly Compounded Suggestions For Easy Persuasion and Influence
Here’s a quick language pattern to slip into your daily conversations whenever you want to “sneak” an idea into somebody’s head. Works like this: [what you want them to do] + [what you know they want to do] + [tag question] If you just say what you want them to do, they’ll likely have objections. […]
Getting To Yes
Whenever you’re persuading, selling or seducing anybody, you’ve got to get them in the right mindset. If you walk up to a stranger on the street, and ask them to buy a watch, they’ll call the cops. But start a conversation about the weather, compliment them on their clothes, get them talking about their watch, […]
Pain or Pleasure?
One thing that’s essential when selling anything to anybody, or persuading anybody to do anything, is understanding what’s important to them. Sure, if you walk up to every single person on the street and try to sell them a slicer dicer, you might get one or two sales out of a hundred. But you’ll also […]
The Famous Double Bind
This is a powerful conversational technique that can get you some quick agreement. It was originally “invented” by Milton Erickson, by since it’s found it’s way into pretty much every main stream sales training and it’s pretty standard even on telemarketing scripts. But it ain’t just for sales. You can use it anywhere, anytime, with […]
I Don’t Know If You’re Ready…
Here’s a great way to “test close” your client. Most people, when it comes time to “close,” meaning asking for the sale, asking for the number, or asking for the date, get nervous. Because one simple “no thank you,” can destroy their efforts. However, here’s a quick way to “test close” and see how “ready” […]
The Takeaway Close
Scarcity is a great way to increase buying desire. Covert hypnosis is a great way to leverage your client’s own thinking in your persuasive efforts. Combining these gives you a one-two punch. When most people think of using scarcity, they imagine it like an overtly stated element. Buy now before the price goes up. Limited […]
Find Commonalities To Skyrocket Persuasion and Seduction
In Japan, the Chinese character used for Monday is the moon. For Sunday, it’s the Sun. Pretty coincidental, right? After all, the English word for Monday is based on the moon as well, and that dates back to ancient times. Also, consider dragons. The idea of a big, fire breathing reptile exists in both Western […]