The age old debate of looks vs. money vs. confidence will never die. Why? Because within the debate, lies a ready excuse. See, most guys would love to walk up to and talk to gorgeous girls, feel comfortable, number close, and slowly but surely fill up your phone book with increasing cute girls to choose […]
How To Tap Your Inherent Super Powers of Persuasion and Influence
If you could choose one super power, what would it be? Long time ago, when I used to teach kids, I would ask this question to prompt discussions. The answers were always entertaining. Invisibility, ability to fly, time travel, being able to “teleport” from one place to another. Basically, the same kind of super powers […]
How To Express Your Ideas Clearly And Persuasively
A few years back I took an acting class at a local community college. It was a great experience for a number of reasons. If you’re looking for a way to dramatically improve your self confidence and communication skills, this will help. We did plenty of interesting exercises to help us “get out of our […]
Confront Your Biggest Fear And It Will Vanish Like Ice In A Volcano
I was watching “Revolver” the other night on Netflix. If you haven’t seen it, I recommend that you check it out. It’s a great metaphor for getting rid of the ego and reaching your full potential. The overall message is that the ego pretends to protect us, but in reality it’s severely limiting us. Like […]
How To Use Nested Loops For Magnetic Social Power
I was watching a pretty funny comedy on Netflix the other night. It was actually a stand up routine, Bill Burr, who’s pretty funny. Pretty un-pc, but pretty funny nonetheless. It was interesting that he was using the “nested loops” strategy from NLP. I’ve seen this with a lot of stand up comedians. A nested […]
Use Strange Language Patterns To Increase Her Desire
I remember a long, long time ago when I was first learning the language patterns of covert and conversational hypnosis. I was in this online chat room, one of those rooms that was connected to Yahoo! games. Where you can play checkers and chat with strangers at the same time. I was running “patterns” on […]
Harness Human Selfishness For Effective Persuasion
Some of the best ideas and methods for effectively persuading people have been around for ages. Take the famous Dale Carnegie idea, that everybody’s favorite radio station is WII-FM, or “what’s in it for me.” Naturally, this idea has been around long before radio, Carnegie’s take is just an updated version of it. This idea, […]
Tap The Amazing Power Of Your Subconscious Mind
I recently read about this incredible metaphor regarding the difference in sizes between the unconscious and conscious brains. For all intents and purposes of this post, unconscious mind, subconscious mind and “other than conscious” mind all pretty much refer to anything going on in our mind body system (like your heartbeat, those memories of when […]
The Source of True Magnetism
I used to know this guy that was incredibly charismatic. I mean off the charts, turn everybody’s head when he walked into a room charismatic. I first ran into him at this public speaking course I was taking. At the time, I couldn’t put my finger on it, but there was something incredibly magnetic about […]
Two Steps To Physical Escalation
One of the most crucial mistakes guys make with girls is looking for conscious buy in. They are at her place, or at the bar, and they hesitate making a move. Later on they’ll complain that they didn’t get any green lights or obvious signs that it was OK to go in for the kiss. […]