Basic Rapport https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan05_Post.mp3 A long time ago I used to sell cars. The first thing they told us to create rapport. This is something everybody’s heard a kajillion times. So everybody thinks they know how to do it. There are many, many, levels of rapport Like talking to people about […]
How To Practice Language
Verbal Power https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July29_Post.mp3 People who can use their words well are admired. If you can use your words well, you can rouse a crowd to do pretty much anything. To buy your product. To vote for you. Attack the castle. The quickest shortcut to mad attraction is to give a […]
Natural Game Frame
Objective Spectrum https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July23_Post.mp3 Things look much differently from an outside, objective standpoint. Compared to a subjective, inside the situation standpoint. Here comes a horrible example, but here we go. If you are in an abusive relationship, it’s hard to see how bad it is from the inside. Whereas everybody on the […]
Lessons From A Stock Operator
Reading Tea Leaves https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/22Jun30_Post.mp3 One of my favorite books is called “Reminiscences of a Stock Operator” by Jesse Livingston. It was an autobiography of a guy named Jesse Livermore. An old school stock market operator from back during the early 1900’s. He got his start in “bucket shops.” These were essentially […]
The Observational Ninja
Archetype https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jun08_Post.mp3 James Bond is famous for a lot of things. Probably the way he says his name. Bond. James, Bond. Not just the word order, but the energy. Total presence. Right tonality, a well placed pause that just kind of hangs there as he stares at whoever he’s talking […]
Supermarket Party Skills
How’s That Avocado? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Apr27_Post.mp3 Imagine a typical day for a typical person during a typical week. Let’s pick a Tuesday. Not quite halfway through the week. But far enough away from yesterday that the common Monday blues are starting to fade. Anyhow, let’s say you’re at the store. Picking up […]
Hobby Practice
Local Guitar Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Apr25_Post.mp3 Once a friend of mine and I were at this local bar. The bar was locally famous for the band that played there on weekends. Not so much the band, but the guitar player. He had a unique trait that made him very memorable, beyond his guitar playing […]
Essential Law of Attraction Skills
It’s easy to get caught up in metaphysical metaphors about reality. For example, when people talk about the Law of Attraction, it’s common to refer to your intentions, on the inside, and “The Universe” or some other vague description, on the outside. Now, don’t get me wrong, this is a great way to visualize. One […]
Become A Conversational Jedi
Have you ever been in a relationship with somebody, and you wanted to tell them something, but you just didn’t know how? And then when you finally got up the confidence, it came out all jumbled and confused? Most people have experiences like this, a lot. Being able to explain yourself, both congruently, and respectfully […]
How To Improve Your Communication Skills With Simple Techniques
Everybody wants better communication skills. No matter what kind of goals you’ve got, job you’ve got, or interests you’ve got, you’ll be able to make more, do more, and enjoy more when you can more effectively interact with others. You can be the smartest guy in the room, but if you can’t get that across […]