Factory Settings https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan17_Post.mp3 We all have the same basic fears. One collection comes from evolution. Sudden loud noises. Heights. Sketchy dark places like forests with little visibility. The people who were naturally afraid of these things tended to survive at a higher rate, thereby passing on those same genes. […]
Anti-Clown Frame
Deep Protection https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan15_Post.mp3 Imagine you have a friend. A potential romantic partner. You’ve been on a couple of dates and your slowly getting closer. You really like this person. You are starting to really care about this person. You feel good when they are happy. You feel bad when […]
Lead Their Desires
Is Vs. Ought https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan14_Post.mp3 The difference between description and prescription is kind of difficult to wrap your brain around. Conceptually, it’s pretty simple. But in real life, knowing the difference isn’t so easy. Science is pure descriptive. People look at the world, and describe what happens. They get more and […]
Magnetic Purpose
True Purpose https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan13_Post.mp3 All ladies, and all people, respond to a guy who has ambition. Job interviews ask those goofy questions for a reason. “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” Having a strong ambition and being proactive go hand in hand. Suppose you answered the job interview question […]
Conversational Superpower
We Are Similar! https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan12_Post.mp3 One way to “accelerate” the romantic cycle is to purposely find things in common. In fact, some folks, on some dating shows, try to find things as QUICKLY as they can. Like on the first date. And then they say, “Wow, we have a lot in common!” […]
Secret Love Hacks
Know Their Mind https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan11_Post.mp3 Imagine if you were a door to door vacuum cleaner salesperson. A job you actually enjoyed. Sure, a pure numbers game. If you sold four cleaners per day, that would be a good living. And let’s just say you sold one for every ten people you talked […]
Deep Perception
Testing…Testing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jun10_Post.mp3 One interesting aspect of psychology is how to test things. Let’s say you’re a marketer. And you want to set up a study. The study will measure the best combination of cheese and snack crackers. So the participants come in and try all the combinations. Three flavors of […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
X-Ray Love Machine
Digging For Gold https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept15_Post.mp4 Imagine two old school gold diggers. Not the modern stereotypical woman who marries dudes for their money. Old school dudes who physically dug for gold. Way back in the day. In one of the biggest migrations of human history. When they discovered gold in the hills […]
Leverage The Human Condition
Free Will Illusion https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept14_Post.mp4 There’s an interesting TV show on Netflix. A popular German TV show called “Dark.” About a whole bunch of time travel loops and paradoxes. One of the underlying themes is free will. All the characters keep running into different versions of themselves. And all of them […]