How Many Cavities So the other day I went to the dentist. I hadn’t been to the dentist in a long long time. Normally this hasn’t been so bad. Occasionally I would get these pains in my teeth. Usually they would go away in a couple days. While I have the pain I would […]
Fear Of Abandonment
Reunion Party I went to a reunion recently. It was a reunion with people that I hadn’t seen in a few decades and because I’m from the generation X, we grew up, we were raised in an environment with no Internet and no social media. Generation X people are a lot less likely to […]
Why Is Money So Complicated?
Money is a huge problem for most people, but in conception and practice. For one, we never seem to have enough. On another level, we’ve got all these messed up ideas about money. Money is evil, or making money requires some kind of horrible selfishness. Sure, if you’re some kind of con artist, swindler, or […]
How To Integrate Your Parts And Respect Your Healthy Fears
There’s a theory in NLP that everybody has all these different “parts.” Most of the time, we’ve got all these parts that are trying to pull us in different directions. One part of us wants to sleep in, for example, another part knows it might feel good to get up early and get some work […]
How To Use Hypnosis To Create A Huge Army Of Loyal Supporters
The other day I was at a friends house, and I noticed she had one of the Harry Potter books on the bookshelf. I remember when those first came out, I was one of those guys who got them as soon as they were released, and read them within a few days. They follow the […]
No More Milk!
Most of us are much more similar than we think we are. Meaning that you take any two people on Earth, and you’ll likely find more similarities than differences. In fact, there’s a “syndrome” named after this. Early anthropologists would visit “strange” countries, and notice “strange” behavior. Only the behavior wasn’t so strange. In fact […]
The Power of Pacing Objections
Getting people to do what you want is a tough job. It doesn’t matter if you’re getting your kids to clean their rooms, getting that number from that cute girl, or making that huge sale that will catapult your commissions into the stratosphere. Most of us love our freedom. I don’t mean in a “patriotic” […]
Exercises For Approach Anxiety
This is gonna get a bit mushy, but get through it and you’ll have a practice that can significantly improve your skills with women. Most of us are afraid, no terrified, of rejection. This comes from our childhood. When you’re a kid, you don’t know anything. All you know is that sometimes when you cry, […]