Most people got it wrong when they think of enhanced communication skills. We’d LOVE to have some kind of system or idea that we can “install” into our brains, and have it simply run on auto pilot. For example, if you wanted to get really good at public speaking, and wanted to be able to […]
Head Turning Magnetism
I used to be friends with this girl who was a kindergarten teacher. Some of funniest stories I’d ever had. She told me one thing in thing in particular, when you tell kids what to do, they don’t listen. You stand there and lecture till your blue in the face, and they’ll ignore you. But […]
Unleash Your Seductive Power
What turns a woman on? What are women attracted to? According to the teachings of Dale Carnegie, we like those who like us. But if you walk up to a girl and drool all over yourself, it’s not going to be enough. But you already know this. It’s also commonly known that girls go after […]
Proper Positive Thinking Using Well Formed Goals
Many people have heard of “positive thinking.” To some, this is nothing more than some kind of Pollyanna-ish view that everything is just peachy, no matter what happens. In fact, I knew this guy in college that was heavy into the positive thinking mindset. He always had something positive to say, what a great day […]
Never Seek Approval From Anybody
Long time ago I used to work at Disneyland. I worked in the “guest research” department. Basically we collected data from park attendees, to support marketing. Mostly demographics. We walked around with these iPad looking things and walked up to random strangers and asked them a bunch of questions. In a given day, we’d each […]
When Did You Stop Beating Your Wife?
Linguistic Presuppositions There’s a powerful set of language patterns called presuppositions. You can use these to imply some incredible things about you or your product or your idea, that makes it sound compelling to your listener or reader. But these can also be used destructively, and in fact this is how most people use them. […]
The Invisible Boundary Of Doom
It’s easy to slip from alpha to beta. If you walk into a joint like you own the place, open up a few cuties to warm up, you feel pretty good. You move on through a few sets, maybe getting a couple numbers. These girls aren’t anything special, but you never know. Then you see […]
What’s The Meaning Of Life?
Meaning is a slippery thing. You say “hi” to somebody. You think it “means” that you’re being polite. They were expecting a hug, so they think it “means” you’re being rude. Who’s right? Are you both right? Are you both wrong? What’s the meaning of your life? Short answer: Whatever you want it to mean. […]
The “As If” Frame
Sometimes you’ve gotta fake it till you make it. You’ve doubtless heard this before, but what does it mean? A great way to do this is through the “as if” frame. Let’s say you’d like to be a highly persuasive person, able to walk up to anybody, friend or stranger, and start talking in beautiful […]
The BEST Opening Frame
When you walk up to a girl, what’s your frame? How would you describe the upcoming conversation? You trying to get her number? You trying to create attraction? You qualifying her? You qualifying yourself to her? This is very important, and will have HUGE impact on how “successful” you’ll be. Now, most guys don’t take […]