Most people have heard that communication is only 7% verbal, but that only tells part of the story. Sure, we all know that facial expressions, body language, tone of voice all have tons of valuable information, and if you’ve ever watched a friend go down in flames, these things are clear. Even watching a failed […]
How To Persuade Like The Sun
One thing I really like is metaphors, both reading them and coming up with them. Here’s one I heard the other day that I particularly like. When a lot of people persuade, they try and “overpower” their listener with all kinds of logic, features and benefits. Or if you’re trying to pick up a girl, […]
Effective Communication Skills Using Congruent Communication
When most us talk, we ignore two crucial elements, both of which can dramatically improve our success. By the time you finish reading this, you’ll not only know what they are, but you’ll know how to implement them so that you’ll easily achieve your outcome. Think about the last conversation you had where the outcome […]
Talk Her Into Attraction
In yesterday’s post, we talked about having the right set of verbal tools is all you really need to get her head over heels in love with you. Sure, you’ve got to be decent to look at, meaning you need to have taken a shower recently, and you can’t have food stains on your shirt. […]
Do You Plan Your Words?
Most people speak like Chewbacca plays chess. They sweep their hairy arms across the table, knocking pieces all over the place. The most elegant persuaders, however, are usually thinking a couple moves ahead. They know with each statement what it will do in terms of increasing or decreasing rapport, eliciting or leveraging their criteria, or […]
How To Transfix Her With Only Your Words
If you can talk a good game, you’re halfway there. No other materials required. However, a lot of us do things backwards. The truth is that when we show up at the party or the club, we feel we’ve got to impress girls BEFORE we walk over there and start talking to her. Why do […]
The Easiest Way To Sell Anything To Anybody
A lot of people are in sales these days. Unfortunately, most of us don’t realize it. Just because you aren’t out there, knocking on doors, or cold calling customers, the persuasiveness of your language will have a dramatic impact on how successful you are. Especially with economy swirling down the toilet, more and more people […]
How To Be More Confident
Confidence is one those things that can easily come and go without notice. You could be talking to a group of friends, feeling comfortable and in the moment. Your jokes are hitting the target, you easily come up with witty responses to playful insults. You’re on fire. Then a gorgeous woman, the kind that’s perfect, […]
An Ingenious Method To Screen Your Women
If you’d like to find out if the girl you’re interested in is your type of girl, then this is a great method. I gotta be upfront, I didn’t create this. But after my friend told me how he used this, I found it worked like a charm. There’s also plenty of other ways to […]
Lean Forward With Your Intention
Most people got it wrong when they think of enhanced communication skills. We’d LOVE to have some kind of system or idea that we can “install” into our brains, and have it simply run on auto pilot. For example, if you wanted to get really good at public speaking, and wanted to be able to […]
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