Take a look through your past, and see if you’d had this kind of experience. You meet a girl, everything’s going good, and then she kind of loses interest. She stops returning your texts, your calls, and makes herself scarce. Hits you in the gut, right? When this happens, it’s easy to point fingers and […]
It’s Not About The Toothpaste
If you’re in a relationship, you know how easily some seemingly simple conversation can turn into a big ugly fight. It starts simple enough, you say something, they say something, then you misinterpret something they say, or you don’t quite say something the way you want to say it, so they misinterpret you. This is […]
What Kind Of Guy Is She Looking For?
I remember one of my “aha” moments when it comes to human attraction and the female mind. I happened to be the videographer (for a time being) for a then famous “guru” who taught game and seduction to a whole cross section of guys. He was giving a free seminar, open to both guys and […]
What’s Over Your Next Hill?
The other night I was watching a movie about those Rugby players that got stranded in the mountains. It was based on the book, “Alive,” and it’s a horrible, tragic and uplifting story all at the same time. These guys were on this plane, on a way to a match. The plane crashed. They were […]
The Paradox Of Unconscious Attraction
Guys since the dawn of time have been trying to get girls to like them. In fact, most of the most beautiful works of art, cathedrals, and symphonies were written with the deep and ancient desire to get some. Now, I don’t mean consciously that Mozart sat down and thought to himself “hmm, if this […]
You Are My Density
I caught that scene from “Back to the Future” on TV the other night. McFly was in the restaurant, speaking to his future wife, when he said: “You are my density.” She, being confused, looked at him with a puzzled look on his face. Then he corrected himself, and said, “You are my destiny.” He, […]
How To Become Sexually Magnetic
I used to know this guy in college who basically had a new girl in his bed every weekend. Not only that, but he had a loyal girlfriend back home, which was only a couple hours away by car. Now, I’m not saying that getting a new girl every weekend is a goal everybody should […]
Rediscover Your Child Like Magic
If you’re like me (and most normal folks today) you love kids, or at the very least can appreciate them. Now, I don’t have any of my own, but plenty of my friends do, and they can be incredibly cute. (I know there’s a lot more to raising kids than just the “cute” part which […]
Three Magic Words For Unlimited Magnetism
I once knew this guy that was the most charismatic, most magnetic, and easily the most successful “lady killer” I’d ever met. Girls would literally melt simply when this guy would walk through department stores. I sat him down and tried to figure out his mindset, and in three words, he described to me his […]
The Other Side of Assertiveness
Long time ago, I used to sell cars. It was actually pretty fun. Besides the bad rap that car salespeople get, when a customer gets what he or she wants, they’re like a little kid on Christmas. I remember this older couple that strolled onto the lot. They seemed like the “type” that could and […]