Ready Set Go https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May23_Post.mp3 Let’s say you’re hanging out in a club. You see a pretty girl. You’d like her to feel good when she thinks of you. So, you stroll over and toss out an opener. The goal is simple. Say some words. The words go into her […]
Love From Scratch
Copy Paste Monkey https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May15_Post.mp3 Humans can reverse engineer a lot of things. To see something, and then figure out how it works, and copy it. Businesses do this with each other all the time. And businesses keep other businesses from doing this all the time. Once, way back in the day, […]
Socratic Party Love
Party Killer https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Apr08_Post.mp4 Socrates was a smart dude. But not the nicest guy you’d meet. He had perhaps the most anti-party skill ever. Everybody’s met somebody who is like Socrates. Not as smart, but the same kind of mindset. The guy or gal who needs to assert their intellectual dominance. […]
Ego Love
Multi Layered https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Mar31_Post.mp4 Humans have a ton of instincts. Most of which we have no clue about. Food, sex, status, these are pretty basic. Dudes compete with other dudes. The winners get the social rewards. Fame, money, sex, etc. These are pretty basic. But just like a delicious […]
Ditch Red Pill Constraints
No Spoon https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan30_Post.mp4 The idea of “red pill” is very compelling. But it also can be very misleading. Or even a misdirection. The term red pill generally means to see things they way they really “are.” To the extent you can do this, you can increase your success. Unfortunately, people […]
Ancient Leadership Magnetism
You Got This https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan29_Post.mp4 The most powerful human force of human nature is confidence. This isn’t so helpful. Mainly because confidence is something that everybody can describe in their own way. There is specific confidence. And general confidence. General confidence that is REAL is the most compelling human trait you […]
Intuitively Pleasing Communication
Nice To Meet You https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan27_Post.mp4 When two boxers start a match, they often “feel each other out.” (Unless one guy is trying to knock out the other guy in world record time…) During a first few dates, couples tend to do the same thing. During the mid nineties, the Lakers spent a […]
Social Operator
Amateur Hour https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan26_Post.mp4 A long, long time ago, I used to play a lot of golf. I had some cheap, hand-me-down clubs. There was a nine hole course near my Junior High School. It cost $5 or something. So my friends and I would sometimes play after school. I liked […]
Effective Social Operator
Not Vulcans https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan25_Post.mp4 It’s a pretty common idea that people are emotional creatures. This is pretty straightforward when you think of it from an “outside of your own head” perspective. We only developed “rational” thinking a short while ago. Most animals can be trained according to “operant conditioning.” Reward positive behavior, […]
Understand Secret Communication
Past The Buying Point https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan24_Post.mp4 There’s a pretty funny meme floating around. I’ve seen it in mostly in economic situations. It’s the guy from “Futurama.” I’ve never watched the show so I don’t know the context of the statement. But the meme has the guy saying: “Shut up and take […]