We Are Similar! https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan12_Post.mp3 One way to “accelerate” the romantic cycle is to purposely find things in common. In fact, some folks, on some dating shows, try to find things as QUICKLY as they can. Like on the first date. And then they say, “Wow, we have a lot in common!” […]
Deep Perception
Testing…Testing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jun10_Post.mp3 One interesting aspect of psychology is how to test things. Let’s say you’re a marketer. And you want to set up a study. The study will measure the best combination of cheese and snack crackers. So the participants come in and try all the combinations. Three flavors of […]
Love Rapport
Basic Rapport https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan05_Post.mp3 A long time ago I used to sell cars. The first thing they told us to create rapport. This is something everybody’s heard a kajillion times. So everybody thinks they know how to do it. There are many, many, levels of rapport Like talking to people about […]
They’ll Adore You
Inner or Outer? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/Jan02_Post.mp3 One common debate among those who study “game” is the use of memorized patterns vs. natural game. Or the idea of inner game vs. outer game. Inner game is confidence, self esteem, etc. The things you can’t see. Whereas outer game is all the things you CAN […]
Maximize Your One Life
Split Test https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec20_Post.mp3 Compare two situations. Two identical people. Same jobs, same incomes, live in the same type of neighborhood. Only one difference. One guy uses credit cards like there is no tomorrow. The other guy ONLY uses his debit cards. Or to make this metaphor even sillier, imagine […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
Predict Everybody’s Personality
Similar Structure https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec03_Post.mp3 There’s an old video on YouTube called the “Axis of Awesome” or something like that. It is a demonstration that nearly all popular western music in the past couple decades have the SAME basic chord progression. If you study the structure of stories, you’ll find the same thing. On […]
Secrets To Attraction
Listen First https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec01_Post.mp3 Many folks have tried and failed with Dale Carnegie’s golden advice. And that is to simply let others do most of the talking. To follow the 80-20 rule. To “let” them talk most of the time. This sounds great in theory. But there are two main and […]
Easy Outcome Independence
Self Learning https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov26_Post.mp3 One of the recent breakthroughs in computer learning was deep learning. The specific program was called AlphaZero, by company DeepMind, which was later bought by Google. How, specifically, did it learn? By playing against itself. All they did was program it with the rules of chess. And […]
Skyrocket Attraction
I Did It https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov17_Post.mp3 One interesting thing to notice is when celebrities mess up. It can be a paradox if you don’t quite understand human nature. But if you do understand human nature, it’s pretty straightforward. Example. A celebrity secretly, or tries to secretly, get together with a hooker. Then […]
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