Know Their Mind https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan11_Post.mp3 Imagine if you were a door to door vacuum cleaner salesperson. A job you actually enjoyed. Sure, a pure numbers game. If you sold four cleaners per day, that would be a good living. And let’s just say you sold one for every ten people you talked […]
Reciprocal Love Generator
Cooperation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan09_Post.mp3 Co-evolution is a pretty interesting concept. It is kind of hard to wrap your brain though. Particularly because we use metaphors to describe complex things. For example, consider bees and flowers. To famously co-evolving people. The bees get “free” food from the flowers. The flowers get a […]
Reciprocal Love
Heaven Or Hell? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan08_Post.mp3 Here is an interesting metaphor about heaven and hell. In hell, everybody is sitting in a huge, round room. They’ve all got their backs up against the wall. In the center is a huge pot of delicious smelling food. They have spoons that are long enough to […]
Love Exchange
Co Evolution https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan06_Post.mp3 Adam Smith once described something very important. Paraphrased, it is the butcher the baker and the brewer don’t get up at the crack of dawn because they are concerned about us. They do that to make the best possible stuff, so we’ll pay for it. Little kids are taught […]
They’ll Adore You
Inner or Outer? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/Jan02_Post.mp3 One common debate among those who study “game” is the use of memorized patterns vs. natural game. Or the idea of inner game vs. outer game. Inner game is confidence, self esteem, etc. The things you can’t see. Whereas outer game is all the things you CAN […]
Dissolve Social Anxiety
No Signals https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec08_Post.mp3 One common idea from “self help” is that the wake doesn’t drive the boat. This is a kind of cool sounding metaphor, but it doesn’t help much. The things that happened to us in our past have a huge impact on how we see and interpret the future. In […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
They’ll Pursue You
Shooting Only https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec04_Loop.mp3 The idea of being “outcome independent” has been around for a long time. At least a couple thousand years. It’s one of the prime recommendations of stoicism. To focus on the shooting of the arrow, and not on the hitting of the target. This is exactly why they […]
Predict Everybody’s Personality
Similar Structure https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec03_Post.mp3 There’s an old video on YouTube called the “Axis of Awesome” or something like that. It is a demonstration that nearly all popular western music in the past couple decades have the SAME basic chord progression. If you study the structure of stories, you’ll find the same thing. On […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
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