Cooperation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan09_Post.mp3 Co-evolution is a pretty interesting concept. It is kind of hard to wrap your brain though. Particularly because we use metaphors to describe complex things. For example, consider bees and flowers. To famously co-evolving people. The bees get “free” food from the flowers. The flowers get a […]
Reciprocal Love
Heaven Or Hell? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan08_Post.mp3 Here is an interesting metaphor about heaven and hell. In hell, everybody is sitting in a huge, round room. They’ve all got their backs up against the wall. In the center is a huge pot of delicious smelling food. They have spoons that are long enough to […]
Deliberate Love Generation
When It’s Easy https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan07_Post.mp3 Imagine this crazy kind of diet plan. You look in the mirror, and promise yourself you’ll get a six pack. But you don’t change your behavior. You just kind of hope for the best. Sure, when you’re feeling it, you exercise. But not every day. […]
Love Exchange
Co Evolution https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan06_Post.mp3 Adam Smith once described something very important. Paraphrased, it is the butcher the baker and the brewer don’t get up at the crack of dawn because they are concerned about us. They do that to make the best possible stuff, so we’ll pay for it. Little kids are taught […]
Love Rapport
Basic Rapport https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan05_Post.mp3 A long time ago I used to sell cars. The first thing they told us to create rapport. This is something everybody’s heard a kajillion times. So everybody thinks they know how to do it. There are many, many, levels of rapport Like talking to people about […]
Hero Desires
Love Generation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan03_Post.mp3 Think about some of the things in life that you want. Your own unique, internal descriptions of the things we all want. For example, what is your ideal job? An ideal expression of your skills for a decent salary? How about your ideal house? Two story one […]
They’ll Adore You
Inner or Outer? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/Jan02_Post.mp3 One common debate among those who study “game” is the use of memorized patterns vs. natural game. Or the idea of inner game vs. outer game. Inner game is confidence, self esteem, etc. The things you can’t see. Whereas outer game is all the things you CAN […]
Control Your Future
Story Control https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec09_Post.mp3 There are a lot of modern ideas about the “narrative.” This is a very broad word. It’s always been a kind of battleground for news stations. The “news” is not just an information dispensary. They just don’t spit out streams of facts. They take the facts and […]
Dissolve Social Anxiety
No Signals https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec08_Post.mp3 One common idea from “self help” is that the wake doesn’t drive the boat. This is a kind of cool sounding metaphor, but it doesn’t help much. The things that happened to us in our past have a huge impact on how we see and interpret the future. In […]
Rebuild Your Personality
B People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec07_Post.mp3 Most of what we remember is wrong. Plenty of studies confirm this. Even in school, when we’re told exactly what to study, we can’t remember. We get B’s on tests. So when things happen to use unexpectedly, it’s a sure bet we really don’t know what happened. […]
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