Confidence Paradox https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Apr24_Post.mp3 One of the most critical things you can develop is confidence. Of course, there are many kinds of confidence. You can be confident in making a delicious piece of toast. But you can be absolutely lacking confidence when it comes to baking a cake, from scratch, only from memory. […]
Parrot Persuasion
Cult Sales https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar07_Post.mp3 I remember this goofy sales job I had a long, long time ago. We’d get together in the morning and everybody would get fired up. Then at the end of the day we’d get together and share what worked and what didn’t. But it had a very creepy, superficial […]
Infinite Practice Loops
Try Again https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb20_Post.mp3 One cool movie, that seemed to be a “one of a kind,” at least back when it came out, was Groundhog Day. Some guy got stuck in a time loop. Same thing happened every day. But each time through, he would improve his behavior. By the end, he […]
Cult Leader Love
Factory Settings https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan17_Post.mp3 We all have the same basic fears. One collection comes from evolution. Sudden loud noises. Heights. Sketchy dark places like forests with little visibility. The people who were naturally afraid of these things tended to survive at a higher rate, thereby passing on those same genes. […]
Secret Love Hacks
Know Their Mind https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan11_Post.mp3 Imagine if you were a door to door vacuum cleaner salesperson. A job you actually enjoyed. Sure, a pure numbers game. If you sold four cleaners per day, that would be a good living. And let’s just say you sold one for every ten people you talked […]
Deep Perception
Testing…Testing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jun10_Post.mp3 One interesting aspect of psychology is how to test things. Let’s say you’re a marketer. And you want to set up a study. The study will measure the best combination of cheese and snack crackers. So the participants come in and try all the combinations. Three flavors of […]
Reciprocal Love Generator
Cooperation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan09_Post.mp3 Co-evolution is a pretty interesting concept. It is kind of hard to wrap your brain though. Particularly because we use metaphors to describe complex things. For example, consider bees and flowers. To famously co-evolving people. The bees get “free” food from the flowers. The flowers get a […]
They’ll Adore You
Inner or Outer? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/Jan02_Post.mp3 One common debate among those who study “game” is the use of memorized patterns vs. natural game. Or the idea of inner game vs. outer game. Inner game is confidence, self esteem, etc. The things you can’t see. Whereas outer game is all the things you CAN […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
Outcome Independent Life
Flow State https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec05_Post.mp3 Being outcome independent is a very, very pleasant state of mind. We all want more or less the same stuff. More money, better relationships, better jobs, etc. But getting those things is the difficult part. You may even say this is our “purpose.” To keep searching for […]
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