Fighting People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Apr08_Post.mp3 Humans are naturally competitive. We have to be. It’s in our nature. Nearly all mammals live within a hierarchy. This is the most efficient way. Most of these hierarchies are based on DNA. Like a regular gorilla can’t just “decide” to become a silverback. He’s […]
Secret Frame Hack
Status Instinct https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar30_Post.mp3 Hierarchy is very important. We don’t often like to admit it, but it’s always there. Everything is organized into hierarchies. Sports teams, companies, militaries, even groups of friends. It’s pretty easy to take an observer view and guess the hierarchy of any one particular group. There is […]
The Sweetest Revenge
Success https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar17_Post.mp3 Humans have what can be called an “externalizing instinct.” Because this is an instinct, it operates at the subconscious level. Just like hunger, it’s not rational. You can’t choose to be hungry. You can’t choose to be not hungry. Similar to social signals, both positive and negative. […]
Slide Their Brains
Status Monkeys https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar11_Post.mp3 Plenty of studies indicate that we humans always self-organize into hierarchies. For example, they’ll take ten people, and put them in a group. Then they’ll give the group a task. Something a bit confusing they need to do, or a problem they need to solve. Without fail, they […]
Ignore False Flexers
I’m Better! https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb09Post.mp3 A lot of people like to flex. It is an ancient instinct. Way back in the day, status was everything. But status was based on what you did. What you did that helped everybody. The more productive of a hunter you were, the more status you got. […]
Dominate Every Situation
Pretty Filter https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov29_Post.mp3 Imagine this scenario. You walk into a bar, and see a random mix of people. Let’s say there are thirty people. Some couples, some groups, some singles. Guys, girls etc. Now the money question. How long would it take, whether you’re a lady or a dude, […]
True Alpha Behavior
Alphabet Origins https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct19_Post.mp3 Once upon a time, these guys called the Phoenicians created the one of the first writing systems. We can call it the modern English alphabet version 1.0. Then the Greeks took over and upgraded to version 2.0. The alpha letter is up on top. Number one. The […]
Unsung Hero Love
Two Strong Frames https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July14_Post.mp3 Holding a strong frame is a very, very valuable skill. Perhaps THE most valuable skill. We can consider two different types of people who have strong frames. On one side, you’ve got cult leaders, self help gurus and politicians. Guys that have kind of squishy ideas, but […]
Trifecta of Greatness
Complex Simplicity https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jun24_Post.mp3 Humans are goal seeking organisms. All animals are goal seeking organisms. But humans are much, much more complex. We were calibrated to live in small, tightly organized groups. Where everybody grew up knowing everybody else. And to make it simpler, Mother Nature gave us each a singular […]
Attract Genuine Smiles
Monkey Magnets https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jun23_Post.mp3 People naturally gravitate to other people. We are not only pack animals, but we are hierarchical pack animals. Self organizing hierarchical pack animals. Everywhere you go, you see this. Teams, companies, organizations, governments, militaries, households, even groups of friends. It’s an interesting social experiment to do this. […]