One common misconception about human decision making is that it’s largely conscious. Studies are beginning to who how our conscious minds may be little more than after the fact story telling devices. Considering that humans are the product of millions of years of evolution, and that during that time our ancestors didn’t have a conscious […]
Conversation Starters For Gorgeous Girls Who’ve Heard It All
So you see that absolutely drop dead HB 10 over there. What in the world do you say? What’s the best conversation starter? Surely she gets hit on all day long right, and she’s heard honeyed lines from some of the richest, most alpha guys around, right? And you’re going to over there with some […]
Your Secret Weapon Of Seduction
This is a trick from Ben Franklin. That dude knew how to party. Whenever you’re out interacting with women, pay close attention to your failures. Anything that doesn’t go the way you wish it went. Now, some people will teach you to ignore your failures, and focus only on your success. This is a wise […]
Increase Confidence With Neutral Compliments
Sometimes breaking the ice with a girl is the toughest part. Largely, because your brain is swirling with all kinds of conflicting messages, maybe she’ll be awesome in bed, or maybe she’ll throw a drink in your face. Naturally, the more experience you have with something, the easier it gets. To be sure, if you […]
Inner Game Affirmations To Destroy Approach Anxiety
When it comes to game, there’s two kinds. Inner and outer game. Most guys focus on outer game, but in reality, if you’ve got strong enough inner game, outer game will take care of itself. I’m sure you know this on some level. Just imagine if you were supremely confident, never got nervous, and eagerly […]
Never Seek Approval From Anybody
Long time ago I used to work at Disneyland. I worked in the “guest research” department. Basically we collected data from park attendees, to support marketing. Mostly demographics. We walked around with these iPad looking things and walked up to random strangers and asked them a bunch of questions. In a given day, we’d each […]
Create Instant Charisma
What’s everybody’s favorite radio station? WII-FM (what’s in it for me) The truth about human nature is that we are always looking out for our best interests. Sure, some of these are long term behaviors, which can give the appearance of short term selflessness, but in reality we are always doing whatever we think we […]
Practice Appreciation For Consistent Seduction
When you approach a girl, there’s a flood of emotions swirling through your brain. Some are evolutionarily programmed, others are due to your childhood and upbringing. Which is which? Who knows. The bottom line is how confident and congruent you are will have a HUGE amount of impact on how well the approach goes. Let’s […]
The Secret Of Consistent Success
There’s a myth out there that if you don’t learn something before you’re seven, you won’t likely ever learn it. To be sure, those that have started studying a foreign language later in life have a much harder time. When I was an English teacher, I found that those that had started studying English very […]
The Inception Defense Frame
Humans are driven to reproduce. So much so that when we find a partner who’s a suitable candidate for making babies, everything goes out the window. I’m sure you’ve had friends that were normal guys until they got into a relationship. Pretty soon they weren’t allowed to hang out, have even one beer, or even […]