People Searching https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Feb05_Post.mp4 There are plenty of ways to “sort” for people. If you are a guy looking for a gal to date, you have your “type.” If you are somebody interviewing for a job, you’ll have a basic set of qualifications. Both for the job, and general people skills. If […]
James Bond Confidence
Learning People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Feb04_Post.mp4 Humans have a lot of instincts. And we have a ton of learning capabilities. And once we learn something “by heart” it becomes “second nature.” Our “first” nature are the things that are part of our factory settings. Our “second” nature are the things we train to the […]
Develop Natural Courage
Act First https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Feb03_Post.mp4 One of my favorite lines for the movies is from a movie called “Three Kings.” One where a couple of soldiers were in the Gulf War. And they found out there was a bunch of hidden gold nobody knew about. So they were planning a gold heist in the […]
World Class Social Status
Look Around https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Feb02_Post.mp4 Imagine you’re a dude. If you ARE a dude, this should be easy. Anyhow, you walk into a room. A social environment where people go to meet other people. You scan the room for ladies. How, specifically, do you do this? Do you spend a few […]
Intuitively Pleasing Communication
Nice To Meet You https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan27_Post.mp4 When two boxers start a match, they often “feel each other out.” (Unless one guy is trying to knock out the other guy in world record time…) During a first few dates, couples tend to do the same thing. During the mid nineties, the Lakers spent a […]
Social Operator
Amateur Hour https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan26_Post.mp4 A long, long time ago, I used to play a lot of golf. I had some cheap, hand-me-down clubs. There was a nine hole course near my Junior High School. It cost $5 or something. So my friends and I would sometimes play after school. I liked […]
Effective Social Operator
Not Vulcans https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan25_Post.mp4 It’s a pretty common idea that people are emotional creatures. This is pretty straightforward when you think of it from an “outside of your own head” perspective. We only developed “rational” thinking a short while ago. Most animals can be trained according to “operant conditioning.” Reward positive behavior, […]
Understand Secret Communication
Past The Buying Point https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan24_Post.mp4 There’s a pretty funny meme floating around. I’ve seen it in mostly in economic situations. It’s the guy from “Futurama.” I’ve never watched the show so I don’t know the context of the statement. But the meme has the guy saying: “Shut up and take […]
Trespassers Will Be Shot
Territorial Earthlings https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan23_Post.mp4 Punching a bee hive would be a silly thing to do. Bees are programmed to defend their territory. So willing are they willing to defend their turf that they die in the process. Whenever a bee stings an attacker, they die. If you wandered into a wolf forest […]
Become Linguistically Undefeatable
Verbal Smackdown https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan22_Post.mp4 If you’re a TV journalist, or a famous podcaster, there are generally two ways to interview your guests. One is to help them express their ideas. That’s if you know you’re both on the same “team.” Very few people that are famous talking head types are purely neutral. […]
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