Avoid The Common https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Mar06_Post.mp3 There are two basic ways to persuade people. First, there is the outside-in approach. Where you tell people what they should do. This is the stereotypical sales person. Sometimes sleazy and pushy. Sometimes elegant with beautiful metaphors. But they all use a sales pitch. […]
Stand Out In A Crowd
Who Are You? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug16_Post.mp3 There have been a few social experiments regarding perception. Like the famous one where a world class violinist played in the subway all day. Nobody recognized him. He only got a few dollars in his tip hat. On the other hand, a college student and his buddies […]
Love Social Situations
Imaginary Friends https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July31_Post.mp3 There’s an NLP strategy that can help you eliminate social anxiety. Get rid of any kind of worry about what to say or do. It’s based on our ancient storytelling instinct. Stories give us access to role models far better than the ones in real life. Tribes that […]
Feed Their Desires
More Than Words https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July30_Post.mp3 One of the biggest mistakes you can make socially is paying too much attention on the words of any conversation. Think of this from an advertising perspective. Most of our decisions are made emotionally. Advertisers and marketers have known this for a long time. If you want […]
Master Of Hierarchies
Triangle Top https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jun10_Post.mp3 The Pareto Principle, and plenty of examples, are everywhere. Pareto was an Italian economist back in the late 1800’s. The idea is simple. In any system, 20% of the system does 80% of the work. 20 percent of NBA players score 80 percent of the points. 20 […]
Idea Implantation
Ready Set Go https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May23_Post.mp3 Let’s say you’re hanging out in a club. You see a pretty girl. You’d like her to feel good when she thinks of you. So, you stroll over and toss out an opener. The goal is simple. Say some words. The words go into her […]
Three Easy Steps
One Two Three https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May17_Post.mp3 There are three components to a happy relationship. But these are easy to miss. Or forget about. For example, if you’re a dude, you’ve likely seen videos etc. about “female nature.” If you are lady, you’ve likely seen similar videos etc. about “male nature.” So far […]
Attractive Frame Of Familiarity
Frame Is All https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec25_Post.mp4 A general idea of persuasion and seduction is frame. Any time you are having a conversation with a specific outcome. This is more true in sales than seduction. For seduction, the outcome is already there. So you don’t need to consciously think about it. Sales, on […]
Demonstrate Attractive Leadership
Ancient Alpha https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec14_Post.mp4 Imagine being an ancient caveman. Imagine you’re pretty confident in your hunting abilities. You’ve helped out in a few large kills. You’re not quite confident enough to lead the team yet. Imagine the ideal leader under this scenario. Kind of like an ancient QB that would lead […]
The High Quality Women Myth
Not Location https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec12_Post.mp4 A common question of men and women is where are all the “quality” people. Men ask where the quality women are. Women ask where the quality men are. This is a false question. Based on false assumptions. The first false assumption is this is a “location” question. […]
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