Leaders and Followers https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Apr05_Post.mp3 There are those who make things happen. Then there are those who watch things happen. Then there are those who wander around cluelessly wondering what keeps happening. Some people are very lucky. The other day I was watching this TV show. One rich girl fell in […]
Profound Communication
Wait https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb24_Post.mp3 There are a lot of metaphors about being patient. When you plant a flower. The flower will grow in its own time. Not your time. So if you keep digging the flower up, to see if its done growing yet, that will decrease the likelihood that it will actually […]
The Greatest Skill
Slow Is Better https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec17_Post.mp3 They say that inch by inch, life’s a cinch. But yard by yard, life is hard. What the heck does this mean? Consider this through the lens of weight loss. Inch by inch would be doing simple exercises every day. To keep up consistency. To […]
House Party Frame
Good Cheesy Advice https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct25_Post.mp3 There’s a piece of advice for actors. One that sounds kind of cheesy. And that is to “own your space.” This can help you become much more believable. Much more confident. This is related to the idea of “home field advantage.” When you’re playing home […]
Become A Social A-Lister
Fake Truth https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug12_Post.mp3 Groucho Marx famously said that sincerity is everything. And that if you can fake that, you’ve got it made. Dude’s got a point, as funny as it is. The one thing that can earn you millions of dollars is world class acting skills. And what is the main […]
How To Dominate With Your Frame
Magnetic Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec16_Post.mp4 Why does having such a strong frame make you irresistible? Not just to the ladies, but to pretty much everybody. First of all, most people are not leaders. Most people need somebody in charge. Most people need to be safely within a group. This isn’t bad or […]
Three Levels of One-Itis
One Itis Feels Good https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May05_Post.mp4 Remember what it was like when you had your first crush? Or even a recent one of that’s easier. Even a fictional character will do. When I was a kid, I had plenty of crushes. One on my second grade teacher. One a few fictional […]
Open Your Unconscious
Improv A while ago I took an improv class on the recommendation of my then acting teacher. I had no idea what to expect, but it turned out to be a class on how to open your subconscious communication. Most of the exercises were non verbal, so you can learn to use your […]
Hidden Treasure Beneath The Surface
Real Estate Client I have a client that I have been talking to over Skype once every couple of months. When she first contacted me she said she had a problem with closing. She was a real estate agent. She did a perfect job explaining all the benefits of the house. She did a […]