Effect Cause https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May18_Post.mp3 Relationships used to be easy. Not fantasy dream come true, but pretty easy. You cruise through school. Learn some basic social skills. Learn some basic life skills. Parents and teachers were there to help. Society was pretty stable. You came out, got a job and […]
Three Easy Steps
One Two Three https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May17_Post.mp3 There are three components to a happy relationship. But these are easy to miss. Or forget about. For example, if you’re a dude, you’ve likely seen videos etc. about “female nature.” If you are lady, you’ve likely seen similar videos etc. about “male nature.” So far […]
Love From Scratch
Copy Paste Monkey https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22May15_Post.mp3 Humans can reverse engineer a lot of things. To see something, and then figure out how it works, and copy it. Businesses do this with each other all the time. And businesses keep other businesses from doing this all the time. Once, way back in the day, […]
The Loyalty Myth
Imaginary Ideas https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan13_Post.mp4 A lot of people grumble about a lack of loyalty today. This is based on a misunderstanding of cause and effect. We believe that because of the way things happened in the past, that’s the way they are SUPPOSED to happen now. Particularly when we look back in the […]
Real Life Mind Control
Your Wish https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan06_Post.mp4 Imagine if you had genuine mind control powers. Like movie mind control. Like if you sold cars, all you’d need to say to somebody is: “Hey, you should buy this car.” And they’d buy that car. Like you saw some guy wandering around on the car lot, […]
What Kind Of Today Do You Want?
Dialing For Dollars https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept12_Post.mp4 There are two ways to sell things. Or two extremes. On one extreme, is the memorized sales pitch. An extreme case would be a memorized phone pitch. A pitch written out on a piece of paper you have taped in front of you. An auto dialer […]
Eject Fakeness and Fear
Not Funny https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug17_Post.mp4 I took an improv class once. I had not idea what it was, it was recommended to me. I thought it was going to be about comedy. But it was about improv in the context of any kind of stage acting. Plays are based on memorized lines. […]
Who’s Choosing Your Life?
Milk Eggs Etc. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun28_Post.mp4 Most people go shopping with a list. Even if you don’t have a physical list, you have one in your brain. Even if you don’t know what you want, you have an idea of what’s good and what’s not. If you are standing in a room, looking out […]
One Shift To Change Everything
Scarcity Gone Wild https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May06_Post.mp4 Nearly everybody is aware of the value of scarcity. Even in goofy romantic movies, the idea of not calling or texting too often is pretty ubiquitous. When you really dig somebody this is hard to do. Particularly if you really dig somebody and you aren’t sure if they […]
Never Do Anything Wrong Again
Kids And Cheats https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr18_Post.mp4 When I was a kid, video arcades were popular. Put in a quarter, and play as long as you could. Many games had cheats. Of course, this was long before the Internet, so to get a cheat you had to know somebody. Otherwise, you had to learn […]