Insult Defense System A much sought after skill is the ability to defend against insults. Much like physical defense, feeling vulnerable can put a serious dent in your ability to get out and enjoy life. From a purely physical standpoint, if you don’t feel physically safe enough to leave your house, the world can be […]
Myth Of Self
Who Are You? How would you answer that question? Most of us answer it by saying what we do, or what we have. By our jobs, by our accomplishments, by our families, by our connections. All of these are things outside of us. If I call myself a writer, it’s really a description of what […]
Cause and Effect
The Mystery Of The Human Mind One of the most confusing things, (or maybe not so confusing since we think we understand it and we really don’t) is the idea of cause and effect. On one hand, it seems simple. We see it happening all the time. It’s the one aspect of science we can […]
Brain Power
Your Most Underutilized Resource What’s your IQ? Before you answer that, consider the structure of that question. The very idea of IQ is considered like somebody’s height. Consider other “What is…” questions about you. What is your degree in? What is your favorite color? What is your wife’s name? What is […]
Social Confidence
Building Real Confidence Want more confidence? Step right up! This technique will work very well. But it won’t work very quickly. But if you spend only a few minutes per night doing the recommendations you’ll learn here, you’ll soon learn to be much more socially confident. No Faking It Till You Make It This […]
Modeling Magic
Original Learning Techniques Modeling is one of the cornerstones of NLP. It was how NLP was “invented.” (Or discovered or stolen…). Modeling is essentially how humans learn. Unfortunately, the way it’s taught in NLP seminars is a not quite as helpful as it could be. In this post we’ll explain why, and then develop a […]
Guaranteed Goal Setting
How To Get Any Goal Set any goals recently? Most people don’t. Most of us know that we should set goals, but few people ever do. We’ve all heard the same stories about people with written goals being worth ten times more than the people without written goals. At the same time, most people know […]
Relationship Economics
Economic Secrets For Healthy And Happy Relationships If you are interesting in dating in any way other than specific “how to” information, it won’t take long before you come across a concept of “Sexual Market Value” or SMV. It’s very tempting to borrow economic and sales terms when speaking of dating or seduction. However, misusing […]
The Impossibility Of Non Selfishness
A Useful Model This post will end with a suggestion to be considered. A model through which to observe the world and your own behaviors within it. For some, this suggestion will be rejected out of hand. For others, this suggestion will allow one to make sense of everything. A internal feeling of the pieces […]
Mental Grip
Easy Way To Increase Confidence and Decrease Anxiety There are plenty different ways to look at things. There are plenty of different ways to categorize things. For example, you could put everything in the world in two categories: Things that are edible and things that aren’t. Or you could walk into a supermarket and categorize […]
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