Dangerous Ideas https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov20_Post.mp3 Humans don’t like uncertainty. In fact, historians have said that the history of humans is a history of scared and lazy people doing everything we can to make things safer and easier. Chasing after a wooly mammoth is scary and dangerous, filled with uncertainty. Growing a bunch of corn […]
Improv Party Skills
Get Into Character https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov15_Post.mp3 I took an acting class once. It was pretty fun, and apparently I did pretty good. The teacher recommended I take an improv class. Which I thought was only for comedy. But it was for much, much more. How to be spontaneous, even when performing a […]
Seven Pillars Of Attraction
Ideal Woman https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct20_Post.mp3 Think of a basic idea of what makes a woman attractive. Not in general, only to you. Your own, private, subjective values. And let’s keep this simple. Prettier or less pretty? More feminine or more masculine? Does she cuss like a sailor or not so much? […]
Small Steps To Huge Success
Metaphor Confusion https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct16_Post.mp3 It’s very easy to misunderstand things when we speak in metaphors. Metaphors are descriptions of complex underlying things. They are far from complete. Like the famous “red car effect.” You buy a red car, which sends a signal to your brain. Red cars are important. This […]
Build Massive Charisma
How To Spot https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct05_Post.mp3 If we were to describe what a charismatic person looks like, what would that be? Not how they affect others, or what might be going on in their brain. Only an external, objective description of their behaviors. They would have wider gestures. Their hands and arms would […]
Avoid Bad Seduction Advice
Jungian Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct04_Post.mp3 Jung is famous for a lot of stuff. Jungian archetypes and various kinds of dream interpretations. One of my favorite quotes of his is this one: “Unless you make the unconscious conscious, it will run your life and you will call it fate.” Back then, when he said […]
Scientific Attraction
Monkey People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept07_Post.mp3 Robin Dunbar is an anthropologist. He had a couple of interesting ideas. One is something called a Dunbar Number. The number of people we can keep track of in our brains. For humans, this is about 150. Meaning you have space in your brain to instantly recall […]
Ancient Love Instinct
Rule The World https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept06_Post.mp3 What is love? Answer this and you might get a Nobel prize. This is a difficult question these days. Most people only experience the first step of love. That attraction that is there to pull people together. That’s like having the ingredients of a cake. […]
Ancient Love Force
Cat Skinners https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept03_Post.mp3 We humans are pretty flexible. They think it all started once we split our division of labor along gender lines. Dudes would hunt, women would gather. This allowed us to live in a lot more areas. It also made “unions” between humans much more important. Plenty of […]
Automatic Attraction
Fire and Water https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Aug10_Post.mp3 Once upon a time there was an ancient poet. Dude’s name was Rumi. Lived back into the 1200’s. He was one of many who understood the paradoxes of life. When you step into the fire, you’re really stepping into the cool water. Or when you step […]
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