First Steps https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov23_Post.mp3 A long, long time ago, I wrestled. Way back in high school. And one thing our coach drilled into us was to have a sequence of opening moves. So as soon as the ref said “go,” we would fire off these two moves as quickly as we could. […]
Verbal Love Dance
Calibrated Words https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov22_Post.mp3 One of the most important parts of humor is timing. To put in the pauses in the right places, to deliver the punch lines at the right times. It works very much like music. Timing is everything. Even in pure serious dialogue, timing is everything. For example, […]
Make Beautiful Music
Make Them Sing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov21_Post.mp3 When I was a kid, on Thanksgiving, my parents would break out the fine China. Which was no big deal to me. I mean, a plate is a plate, right? But the wine goblets were pretty cool. Made out of crystal. And if you would wet […]
Become Approachable
Dangerous Ideas https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov20_Post.mp3 Humans don’t like uncertainty. In fact, historians have said that the history of humans is a history of scared and lazy people doing everything we can to make things safer and easier. Chasing after a wooly mammoth is scary and dangerous, filled with uncertainty. Growing a bunch of corn […]
Pass Every Test
Don’t Hate https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov19_Post.mp3 Why do women test men? Plenty, if not most, don’t quite understand why this happens. Most, if not all, wish this wouldn’t happen. They see it as a sign of disrespect. Maybe from reading too much “red pill” material on line. For example, a less than successful […]
Groucho Marx Seduction
Be Real https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov18_Post.mp3 Groucho Marx famously said that sincerity is the most important thing in the world. And if you can fake that, you’ve got it made. The reason A list actors get paid so much is they are believable. When they say their lines, we BELIEVE them. They are absolutely […]
Skyrocket Attraction
I Did It https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov17_Post.mp3 One interesting thing to notice is when celebrities mess up. It can be a paradox if you don’t quite understand human nature. But if you do understand human nature, it’s pretty straightforward. Example. A celebrity secretly, or tries to secretly, get together with a hooker. Then […]
Scientific Attraction
Monkey People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept07_Post.mp3 Robin Dunbar is an anthropologist. He had a couple of interesting ideas. One is something called a Dunbar Number. The number of people we can keep track of in our brains. For humans, this is about 150. Meaning you have space in your brain to instantly recall […]
Master The Most Important Trait
Deep Down https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan11_Post.mp4 Most humans think we are attracted to content, or what exists on the surface. But we are moved by structure. For example, imagine two actors. One is A list. One is bottom of the barrel Z list. They both say the EXACT same words. But one […]
Don’t Be A Bruised Apple
Apples https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug22_Post.mp4 Once I saw a picture from the soviet union. From way back in the day. It was kind of like a Monty Python movie. Where they had one guy selling nothing. “I’ve got nothing for sale!” Funny in a movie, where everybody starving and broke in the dark […]
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