No Spoon https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan30_Post.mp4 The idea of “red pill” is very compelling. But it also can be very misleading. Or even a misdirection. The term red pill generally means to see things they way they really “are.” To the extent you can do this, you can increase your success. Unfortunately, people […]
Ancient Leadership Magnetism
You Got This https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan29_Post.mp4 The most powerful human force of human nature is confidence. This isn’t so helpful. Mainly because confidence is something that everybody can describe in their own way. There is specific confidence. And general confidence. General confidence that is REAL is the most compelling human trait you […]
Vibe Naturally And Pleasantly
Check The Brakes https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan28_Post.mp4 Once, a long time ago, a buddy of mine and I were on a bike ride. I was using my bike. He was using a borrowed bike. Were about the same, shape wise. So whenever we went riding together, we would complete. To try and out […]
Intuitively Pleasing Communication
Nice To Meet You https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan27_Post.mp4 When two boxers start a match, they often “feel each other out.” (Unless one guy is trying to knock out the other guy in world record time…) During a first few dates, couples tend to do the same thing. During the mid nineties, the Lakers spent a […]
Social Operator
Amateur Hour https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan26_Post.mp4 A long, long time ago, I used to play a lot of golf. I had some cheap, hand-me-down clubs. There was a nine hole course near my Junior High School. It cost $5 or something. So my friends and I would sometimes play after school. I liked […]
Effective Social Operator
Not Vulcans https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan25_Post.mp4 It’s a pretty common idea that people are emotional creatures. This is pretty straightforward when you think of it from an “outside of your own head” perspective. We only developed “rational” thinking a short while ago. Most animals can be trained according to “operant conditioning.” Reward positive behavior, […]
Understand Secret Communication
Past The Buying Point https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jan24_Post.mp4 There’s a pretty funny meme floating around. I’ve seen it in mostly in economic situations. It’s the guy from “Futurama.” I’ve never watched the show so I don’t know the context of the statement. But the meme has the guy saying: “Shut up and take […]
Origin Story Erasure
Dale Carnegie’s Brilliance Before Dale Carnegie wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People he did an extensive public speaking workshop for many years. He found through this workshop all the techniques and all the details and strategies that he later wrote and How to Win Friends and Influence People. That’s what makes this […]