Frame Perception https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct21_Post.mp3 One powerful insight is how people judge us. People just us based on how we judge us. If we feel weak, people will perceive us as weak. Not because they, inside their own brain, have decided that. But because we have weak frames and we exhibit external behavior […]
Ditch Desperation
Lost Humans https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct11_Post.mp3 It’s been said that most people live lives of quiet desperation. This may be an accurate description of modern humans. It sure seems like a lot of people are in a bad way these days. But it also might be a kind of a flex. How so? […]
Why Words Are Dangerous
Life Imitates Art https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct08_Post.mp3 There’s a TV show I just started watching. Called “The Old Man” with Jeff Bridges. A pretty common theme. Ex trained assassin trying to live a normal life, but then “they” try and pull him back into the fray. But he told one story, and it was […]
Perpetual Charisma
Two Sided Charisma https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct07_Post.mp3 An attractive personality and outcome independence are related. The more outcome independence you have, the more attractive you’ll be. The opposite is also true. Unless you are super famous, obviously rich or super handsome, the more dependent you are on the outcome, the less attractive of a personality […]
Build Massive Charisma
How To Spot https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct05_Post.mp3 If we were to describe what a charismatic person looks like, what would that be? Not how they affect others, or what might be going on in their brain. Only an external, objective description of their behaviors. They would have wider gestures. Their hands and arms would […]
Avoid Bad Seduction Advice
Jungian Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct04_Post.mp3 Jung is famous for a lot of stuff. Jungian archetypes and various kinds of dream interpretations. One of my favorite quotes of his is this one: “Unless you make the unconscious conscious, it will run your life and you will call it fate.” Back then, when he said […]
Right Practice Right Outcome
Three Stages https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct02_Post.mp3 In life, we can consider three very basic categories of learned skills. Compared to inborn skills, like running, fighting, language and having sex. These are things we need to learn on top of the things we are born able to do. Of course, there is plenty of overlap. […]
Attractive Frame Practice
Continuous Improvement https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept30_Post.mp3 Everything you want to get better at takes practice. This is a harsh truth, especially in the realm of interpersonal skills. This is why they have clubs like Toastmasters. Groups of helpful friendly people who help each other become better, more confident, more competent speakers. Way back during […]
Automatic Attraction
Super Player https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept29_Post.mp3 I used to know this guy. He lived in Japan. He did magic as a hobby, and sometimes for money. But mostly as a hobby. He made his money doing plenty of other interesting side hustles. His tricks were pretty simple. Sleight of hand combined with […]
Deep Love Skills
Best Night Ever https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept28_Post.mp3 Imagine this scenario. You’re at a bar or pub with your friends. You notice somebody across the room. They look interesting. You’re feeling very confident. Maybe you just got a promotion, or maybe you just landed a huge client for your company, or maybe you got […]
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