Easy Manipulation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Feb26_Post.mp3 It’s been said that people will do anything for those who: “Encourage their dreams, justify their failures, allay their fears, confirm their suspicions and throw rocks at their enemies.” If you want to sell something to people, that will do it. If you want to persuade anybody, that will […]
Lead Their Desires
Is Vs. Ought https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan14_Post.mp3 The difference between description and prescription is kind of difficult to wrap your brain around. Conceptually, it’s pretty simple. But in real life, knowing the difference isn’t so easy. Science is pure descriptive. People look at the world, and describe what happens. They get more and […]
Love Rapport
Basic Rapport https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan05_Post.mp3 A long time ago I used to sell cars. The first thing they told us to create rapport. This is something everybody’s heard a kajillion times. So everybody thinks they know how to do it. There are many, many, levels of rapport Like talking to people about […]
Hero Desires
Love Generation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Jan03_Post.mp3 Think about some of the things in life that you want. Your own unique, internal descriptions of the things we all want. For example, what is your ideal job? An ideal expression of your skills for a decent salary? How about your ideal house? Two story one […]
Easy Love Questions
I Want… https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec06_Post.mp3 Everybody is gun shy about expressing their desires. This is very structural. As children, we keep asking for stuff. And we keep getting told no. And usually, we get told no with not so pleasant body language. So by the time we reach adulthood, most of normal […]
Easy Love Strategies
You Get Me https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Dec02_Post.mp3 One very common movie trope is when two people fall in love. And one of the characters, usually the lady, feels that the guy really “gets” her. This is a very special feeling. We have all been programmed to be a little bit gun shy when expressing ourselves. […]
Dominate Every Situation
Pretty Filter https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov29_Post.mp3 Imagine this scenario. You walk into a bar, and see a random mix of people. Let’s say there are thirty people. Some couples, some groups, some singles. Guys, girls etc. Now the money question. How long would it take, whether you’re a lady or a dude, […]
Groucho Marx Seduction
Be Real https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Nov18_Post.mp3 Groucho Marx famously said that sincerity is the most important thing in the world. And if you can fake that, you’ve got it made. The reason A list actors get paid so much is they are believable. When they say their lines, we BELIEVE them. They are absolutely […]
Express The Real You
Secret Penguin https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct29_Post.mp3 I recently read a quote from Colin Farrell about playing the Penguin in the latest Batman movie. He said he was worried at first. That all the makeup would be too constricting. But he said it was the opposite. That it was very, very freeing. Because it […]
Three Steps To Domination
Find The Best https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct23_Post.mp3 Plenty of schools and organizations have speech contests. This implies that there are “winners” and “losers.” This implies that there are ways to differentiate between a “good speech” and a “bad speech.” When directors want to find the right people to play the part in their movies, they […]
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