My pappy used to have this saying, “You can beat the race, but you’ll never beat the races.” This means that when betting on the ponies, you may come across an occasional “tip” or piece of inside info, but most folks, over the long run, will end up net negative at the track. How’s this […]
The Video Game Model
If you’ve read “The Game,” or have studied Mystery Method, you know that one helpful model is the “video game model.” When used correctly, it can be very helpful. Basically it breaks down like this. In video games, you’ve got different levels. You keep going, until you “win” the game. But if you lose, (or […]
Turn Her On By Leaving Her Hanging
One way guys blow themselves out is through improper use of texting. Some say silly things like “alpha males don’t text,” but like any tool, there’s right ways and wrong ways to use it. In order to create and maintain attraction, you’ve got to do a few basic things. Now, how specifically you do these […]
How To Come Up With Interesting Conversation Topics When Talking To Girls
How To Talk To Girls For a lot of guys, talking to girls is incredibly nerve wracking and potentially treacherous. Sure, talking to your buddies is easy, but when you suddenly find yourself in a conversation with a girl that can really spin your propeller, then there’s suddenly a lot at stake. One of the […]
How To Demonstrate High Value With Her Help
DHV, the holy grail of seduction, right? Well, here’s a way to take it to the next level. When most guys think in terms of this, they think along the lines of “impressing” her. As if she’s got this mental clipboard in her head and is going to check off different variables of all the […]
How To Transfix Her With Only Your Words
If you can talk a good game, you’re halfway there. No other materials required. However, a lot of us do things backwards. The truth is that when we show up at the party or the club, we feel we’ve got to impress girls BEFORE we walk over there and start talking to her. Why do […]
Practice Appreciation For Consistent Seduction
When you approach a girl, there’s a flood of emotions swirling through your brain. Some are evolutionarily programmed, others are due to your childhood and upbringing. Which is which? Who knows. The bottom line is how confident and congruent you are will have a HUGE amount of impact on how well the approach goes. Let’s […]
The Myth Of Hard And Fast Rules
Approach within three seconds. Wait at least a day before calling, but don’t wait more than three. Never leave a voicemail. Only send one text per day. Never compliment her on her looks. These are just some of the “rules” you’ll hear in the seduction community, and on various forums and blogs. While rules are […]
The Hypothetical Qualifying Opener
Say you see a girl across the room. You’d love to go over and game her, but for some reason, you can’t think of a reason to start the conversation. Next time you’re in this situation, try this out. Think of an honest compliment. Then jack it up a few notches. Really make it “out […]
Girls LOVE Being Approached
Most of your fears, in fact all of them, with regards to approaching and seducing women don’t come from women. They come from what happened to you a long, long time ago. See, most girls LOVE being approached by guys, even if they aren’t particularly attracted to the guy in question. Why? Girls are extremely […]