Neuron Loops https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun01_Post.mp4 I was watching a really interesting lecture the other day. One in a long series about all the reasons different people exhibit different behaviors. A lot of our neurological makeup is based on feedback loops. Like some neurons fire and light up another neuron. But some neurons fire, […]
Become A Linguistic Assassin
Magic Words https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr24_Post.mp4 The very first book on NLP was “The Structure of Magic.” How NLP was “discovered” is pretty interesting. It happened way back in the “golden times” of therapy. When more and more people were OK with going to therapy. A growing demand. But BEFORE the insurance industry […]
Drop Ambition Breadcrumbs
Five Years? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar19_Post.mp4 A common question you get in interviews is: Where do you see yourself in five years? I never really liked that question. One, because I never had a five year plan that included the company I was applying for. But mainly because my five year plans are nobody’s […]
CIA Psychic Assassin
Easy Cash With A Catch I used to have this fantastic sales job. Easy money, fat stacks of cash but it ended in an unexpected train wreck that left me fleeing for my life. It was a sales job, a job where you have a list of warm clients, people who have responded to […]
How To Kill Social Anxiety
Everybody’s Got It There are many truths about humans and human nature. Here are two: All people have social anxiety. All people would like to have less social anxiety. Consider this a given. Many people would like to go out and meet people, but they say, “Yeah, but I have social anxiety!” Unfortunately, some people […]
How To Treat Every Seduction Like An Amusement Park
Nobody likes looking like an idiot. Especially in front of people that are important. Now, I’m pretty sure not looking like an idiot is high on everybody’s list of priorities, but looking like an idiot in front of folks you’ll never see again is not nearly as bad as looking like an idiot in front […]