Confidence Paradox https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Apr24_Post.mp3 One of the most critical things you can develop is confidence. Of course, there are many kinds of confidence. You can be confident in making a delicious piece of toast. But you can be absolutely lacking confidence when it comes to baking a cake, from scratch, only from memory. […]
Perpetual Charisma
Two Sided Charisma https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct07_Post.mp3 An attractive personality and outcome independence are related. The more outcome independence you have, the more attractive you’ll be. The opposite is also true. Unless you are super famous, obviously rich or super handsome, the more dependent you are on the outcome, the less attractive of a personality […]
Self Fulfilling Attraction
Reverse Polarity https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July27_Post.mp3 The idea of “abundance” is pretty popular. Generally speaking, success creates abundance. Right off the bat, this creates a problem. Humans are not very logical. There’s an idea that’s been around for a long time. You can tell it’s been around for a long time since it’s […]
Natural Game Frame
Objective Spectrum https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July23_Post.mp3 Things look much differently from an outside, objective standpoint. Compared to a subjective, inside the situation standpoint. Here comes a horrible example, but here we go. If you are in an abusive relationship, it’s hard to see how bad it is from the inside. Whereas everybody on the […]
Shoot Arrows Of Happy Love
Sponge People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun27_Post.mp4 When humans are born, our brains are extremely thirsty sponges. Our instincts are calibrated so doing what help us to survive feels very good. Being hungry sucks. Eating feels fantastic. Being alone sucks. We are social animals, not sharks. So being around people we enjoy, and […]
Bliss Inducing Eye Contact
Love Options https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun12_Post.mp4 There are two ways to build outcome independence. One way is old school. For example, let’s say you decided to become outcome independent when you talked to gorgeous girls. So you really DIDN’T care what happened during the conversation. So you could playfully tease her, make jokes, be […]
Gaze With Eyes Of Wonder
Appreciation https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun07_Post.mp4 There are plenty of things in life that are truly magnificent. For example, if you’ve ever seen a large whale leap out of the water, that is pretty spellbinding. Personally, I’ve never seen such a thing. But people who have describe it like a religious experience. I’ve heard some […]
Develop True Outcome Independence
We Want To Believe https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun05_Post.mp4 Everybody is naturally attracted to somebody with outcome independence. NOT fake outcome independence which is what nearly everybody has. We have a kind of two way reframing system that is VERY fast. When random good things happen, we take credit. When random bad things happen, we […]
Make The World Qualify Itself
External Triggers https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun02_Post.mp4 There are a lot of elements, most of which are outside of our conscious awareness, that are added to any message. Authority is a big one. Authority doesn’t necessarily mean political or legal. Most of the time, it usually can be famous. For example, you’re watching TV and […]
Flow States and New Instincts
Getting Beat A long time ago I used to play a lot of racquetball. One day I was playing against a friend of mine against whom I usually won. We usually played best-of-seven, first person to win four games. He was winning three games to zero and he was about halfway through the fourth […]