Jungian Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Oct04_Post.mp3 Jung is famous for a lot of stuff. Jungian archetypes and various kinds of dream interpretations. One of my favorite quotes of his is this one: “Unless you make the unconscious conscious, it will run your life and you will call it fate.” Back then, when he said […]
Casual Polarity Shift
Pre Game Love https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Jun15_Post.mp3 Imagine the following scenario. You are going to a party. At a colleague’s house. You aren’t sure if you’ll know anybody there. You’ve invited a couple of friends, but they may or may not show up. As it stands, you are rolling solo. So you’re […]
Fail More Often
Find Bumps https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Apr04_Post.mp4 One of the central themes of stoicism is the idea of the obstacle being the way. This is not an easy thing to do. It’s easy to say when talking about philosophy. It’s easy to say a lot of cool things when talking about philosophy. All without really […]
Love Calibration
Wrong Hug https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Mar02_Post.mp4 The other day, I saw TV show. And in this show was a very, very common dynamic. A guy and a gal were talking. They were partners, working for the government. Both through the CIA or some other spy stuff. The dude liked the girl, romantically. […]
Develop True Outcome Independence
We Want To Believe https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun05_Post.mp4 Everybody is naturally attracted to somebody with outcome independence. NOT fake outcome independence which is what nearly everybody has. We have a kind of two way reframing system that is VERY fast. When random good things happen, we take credit. When random bad things happen, we […]
Stop Punching Walls
Born Again Cursing https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May10_Post.mp4 A long time ago, I worked in a lab with a couple of other guys. One of these guys was a born again Christian type. He used to be a hard drinking, lady chasing type. But then he found Jesus, got married and settled down. And he […]
The Implied One Time Offer
Shrinking Chance https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr29_Post.mp4 The most commonly used “triggers” of influence is scarcity. Even when it’s blatantly fake. Like you’ve no doubt seen signs in some windows that say: Sale! Today Only! A sign that is there EVERY day. Long time ago I worked at a pizza place. They would […]
How To Start And Maintain A Conversation With Anybody
Why Social Anxiety Exists Social skills are coveted by many, but they are also the most difficult to practice. This is the problem that keeps many of us from actively improving our social skills. Most of us don’t improve our skills to begin with, since practicing is pretty boring. Many people would love to play […]
Approach Anxiety Elimination Tips That Work For Good
Most guys have some kind of approach anxiety. If you don’t have approach anxiety, then something’s wrong with you! It’s natural to be a bit nervous and uncomfortable doing new things, and when we’re thinking about talking to that gorgeous girl over there, when there’s so much to gain, this doesn’t help matters much. The […]
Easy Escalation Tips For Guaranteed Success
Escalation, physical escalation is a crucial skill. Both to increase attraction, as well as “test” to see if any is there. After all, it’s easy to read books and watch videos about IOI’s and understand things about pupil dilation, body language, color texture of her cheeks and what not, but when you’re neck deep in […]