Get Out Of The House A long time ago I took this class in tai chi. It was a class that was 24 weeks long and each week we would learn one new movement. By the end of the 24 weeks we had a whole self-contained kind of tai chi structure that we could do […]
Update Strategies Or Die
Lucky Accountaint Once upon a time there was a very introverted accountant. He worked for very large firm. He was very good at his job so he made a lot of money. One summer they had a picnic a company picnic and this introverted accountant won a raffle at the picnic. The prize for […]
The Freeloader Problem
Two Sides Of A Deadly Coin Way back in the day, we humans lived in small tribes of a few hundred people. Life was harsh. Getting food was difficult and dangerous. Predators were everywhere, and the food tended to run away. Animals didn’t want to be killed and eaten. Hunter Gather Instincts We humans […]
Are You On Your Own Road?
One common things that happens are a big event, especially one that’s been building for a long time is a sense of “letdown.” When I was a kid, I would always look forward to family trips, and I would always feel extremely depressed when the trip was over. After having some fun in a faraway […]
What Kind Of Relationship Do You Want?
Most guys let themselves be driven by caveman instincts when out interacting with women. Meaning they figure they’ll just kind of “wing it” when they see a cute girl. Now, if you’re brave enough, and you interact with enough ladies, you can slowly “learn from your mistakes” and consistently get better. But this has a […]
How To Pre-Frame Objections For Automatic Win Win Outcomes
Whenever we imagine talking to somebody and getting something from them, we’re usually of two minds. On the one hand, we want whatever it is we want, which gives us the desire in the first place. On the other hand, we fear being rejected, and ending up worse than we are. Maybe you want to […]
Inside Secrets Of Effective Goal Setting – And Traps To Avoid
One of the biggest reasons for failure is not for lack of trying. It’s lack of planning. Everybody knows about goals. Those who set goals tend to have better lives than those who don’t. Perhaps you’ve heard of the famous Harvard Study? Some research psychologists followed a group of graduating seniors from Harvard. They compared […]