Thunderbolt of Pain The other day, I was walking down the street just minding my own business when out of nowhere I was hit in the gut with an emotional sucker punch. I was in a pretty good mood, I wasn’t going anywhere in particular, my eyes just kind of wandering around on their […]
Angel of Peace
Bad Mood Couple of nights ago I was in a fairly foul mood. I didn’t know why and I wasn’t really interested in finding out why. I wanted to ignore my problems by focusing on something else or what to my local bar. I didn’t even plan on talking to anybody. I just sat […]
Queen Of A Lesser Kingdom
New Lady at Toastmasters A new woman came to my Toastmasters recently. She’s a very interesting combination or she has a very interesting combination of both confidence and anxiety. When she talks about normal things she’s very very confident, in fact she’s the most confident person I’ve seen in a very very long time. […]
Motivational Killer
Lifetime Killer A couple of weeks ago I saw this lifetime movie about a guy. It started off after he had killed his first wife. The movie was about how he started to get his potential second wife to fall in love with him and then as she was falling in love with him she […]
Externally Projected Demons
From Peace And Tranquility A long time ago I used to be a devout Christian in fact there was a time in my life when I went to daily mass for work. Now even if I go near a church, particularly a Catholic church, I have to do everything I can to not pass […]
How To Kill Social Anxiety
Everybody’s Got It There are many truths about humans and human nature. Here are two: All people have social anxiety. All people would like to have less social anxiety. Consider this a given. Many people would like to go out and meet people, but they say, “Yeah, but I have social anxiety!” Unfortunately, some people […]
Seduction Scams
Why The Seduction Market Will Always Be Hot If you created a time capsule in your back yard, crawled into it and came out 5,000 years into the future, you’d find a lot of things different. Different language. Different monetary system. The people might even look a little different (although 5,000 years is a blink […]
The Paradox of Magnetic Attraction
If you’ve ever been out to eat at a restaurant, it’s easy to spot people on a “first date.” Their at their best behavior, sitting up straight, using all the table manners they can remember. You can even see that their facial expressions are polite, respectful, and attentive. In other words, fake as a three […]
How To Deal With Anxiety
Everybody’s got anxiety. And there’s all kinds of anxiety from performance anxiety to separation anxiety. While anxiety can be cured with mind numbing pills and medications, these may have a side effect of cutting down on your ability to interact with others and get what you want out of life. Life is Communication and Relationships […]
Become A Conversational Jedi
Have you ever been in a relationship with somebody, and you wanted to tell them something, but you just didn’t know how? And then when you finally got up the confidence, it came out all jumbled and confused? Most people have experiences like this, a lot. Being able to explain yourself, both congruently, and respectfully […]