Confusion https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/23Apr21_Post.mp3 The world, and how it works, can be very difficult to understand. What makes it even worse is we all have a collection of “shoulds” in our brain. We look out into the world, and see that it is less ideal. We “wish” it were different. But saying that […]
They’ll Adore You
Inner or Outer? https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2023/Jan02_Post.mp3 One common debate among those who study “game” is the use of memorized patterns vs. natural game. Or the idea of inner game vs. outer game. Inner game is confidence, self esteem, etc. The things you can’t see. Whereas outer game is all the things you CAN […]
Generate Luck Opportunities
Different Experiences https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept16_Post.mp3 They say you shouldn’t judge somebody until you walk a mile in their shoes. This is a pretty common and basic idea. It’s one thing to get angry at people for not doing what you think they should. This is kind of an automatic response. With a little […]
Scientific Attraction
Monkey People https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22Sept07_Post.mp3 Robin Dunbar is an anthropologist. He had a couple of interesting ideas. One is something called a Dunbar Number. The number of people we can keep track of in our brains. For humans, this is about 150. Meaning you have space in your brain to instantly recall […]
Love Social Situations
Imaginary Friends https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/2022/22July31_Post.mp3 There’s an NLP strategy that can help you eliminate social anxiety. Get rid of any kind of worry about what to say or do. It’s based on our ancient storytelling instinct. Stories give us access to role models far better than the ones in real life. Tribes that […]
Friend Generator Frame
Team Of Experts https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec24_Post.mp4 I used to be a huge fan of Michael Crichton books. They all had pretty much the same overall theme. There was some kind of problem that required a scientific solution. And somebody would assemble a group of experts to solve the problem. This same type of […]
Generate Irresistible Scarcity Of You
No Soup For You https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May02_Post.mp4 One of the more famous characters from Seinfeld is the “Soup Nazi.” Dude has some seriously delicious soup. His soup was SO popular, he didn’t need to advertise. Tons of people came for his delicious soup ONLY because of word of mouth. And because he always […]
Reunited Tragedy
Before Conscious Mind Once there were two friends. They’d been friends for a long time. Every since they could remember. Before kindergarten. Before they developed conscious awareness. They went everywhere together. They did their homework together. They went to the same college. They worked in the same […]
Why Be Yourself Is Excellent Advice
Be Yourself A very common piece of advice when wanting to make friends or to create romantic relationships is to be yourself. From a superficial level, this seems to make logical sense. If you can be yourself, you’ll eventually meet people who like the real you. At the same time, this advice […]
Question Everything
Church Girl I used to go to this Christian church that was very light on the dogma and heavy on the activities and that’s the reason I went there was to participate in a lot of outreach activities. I met this one girl there and we would hang out sometimes but it was always […]