Modeling Success Is Impossible One of the cornerstones of NLP is modeling. In fact, the entirety of NLP was created through modeling. The linguistic-persuasion aspect was modeled from the top therapists at the time. NLP if often referred to as the “study of excellence.” Which means they find people doing excellent things, copy them, and […]
Should vs Is
The Battle Of Thought Control As humans, one of the things we love to do is come up with ideas about how others should be behaving. People shouldn’t text and drive. People should say thank you. People shouldn’t watch TV past ten PM. Kids should do their homework. Parents should pay more attention to their […]
Social Sleight of Mouth
Insane Frame Building Sleight of Mouth (SOM) is a very powerful set of tools to overcome objections on a linguistic-logical level. However, they work for a lot of reasons besides the way people think they work. For example, let’s consider a very common price objection, which serves as a model in many books and courses […]
How To Handle Insults
Insult Defense System A much sought after skill is the ability to defend against insults. Much like physical defense, feeling vulnerable can put a serious dent in your ability to get out and enjoy life. From a purely physical standpoint, if you don’t feel physically safe enough to leave your house, the world can be […]
Social Confidence
Building Real Confidence Want more confidence? Step right up! This technique will work very well. But it won’t work very quickly. But if you spend only a few minutes per night doing the recommendations you’ll learn here, you’ll soon learn to be much more socially confident. No Faking It Till You Make It This […]
Mental Grip
Easy Way To Increase Confidence and Decrease Anxiety There are plenty different ways to look at things. There are plenty of different ways to categorize things. For example, you could put everything in the world in two categories: Things that are edible and things that aren’t. Or you could walk into a supermarket and categorize […]
Circle Of Excellence
NLP Change Work That Sticks The Circle of Excellence is a semi-popular NLP procedure that can be very beneficial if done correctly. As mentioned here, most NLP procedures are, unfortunately, not done correctly. They are often taught as “once and done,” quick fixes that work in the seminar room, but out in the harsh world […]
The Myth Of Complacency
Why Risk And Uncertainty Is Scary We humans don’t like doing new things. Our brains very much like to settle into as many auto pilot situations as we can. Much of our thinking patterns and collections of biases evolved to cut down on thinking energy. Because our brains are a pretty expensive organ (operational calories […]
Essential Interpersonal Communication Skills
Seven Vital Communication Skills and How To Practice Them For humans, communication is like water to a fish. It’s always there, so we don’t usually think about it or notice it. Except when the fish is yanked out of the water onto a boat and starts flopping around. Then he notices the water but only […]
Frame Control Exercises
Secrets Of Frame Control Frame control is a very common idea. Peruse any blog on pick-up or seduction and guys complain they “lost the frame.” Many times they’ll admit to losing the frame, and they want to know how to get it back. In this article, we will show you what frame means, and how […]
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